Thinking about and planning the details of our own funerals provides us some peace of mind and it's a gift to the people who love us. Letting our families know our preferences will save them questions and confusion in their time of grief. While price is rarely the deciding factor when it comes to end-of-life matters or funeral planning, it's helpful to have an idea of what different disposition options cost.
If you are planning a conventional disposition, you will probably call a funeral home. Primarily, what funeral professionals do is provide services. Perhaps because funeral services are bundled differently and everyone has their own specific needs and desires, finding a price list online is rare. Most funeral homes do not provide prices on their websites; they are not required to by law. They tend to want to meet in person.
Still, knowing what it's going to cost, even roughly, is an important part of any plan. There are a few BC funeral homes who offer excellent information online including prices for products and services.
There are very few products actually needed for burial or cremation. You can spend as much as you want of course and there is a dazzling array of options, but let's look at the bare necessities. For residents of Williams Lake, there are currently no Green Burial options.
For a conventional casket burial, you will need a casket, a burial plot, and if the cemetery bylaws require it, as is the case with our local cemetery; a concrete or fiberglass vault or liner will have to be purchased.
If you are choosing cremation and going 'bare bones', a cremation casket or container is required and there is the actual cremation fee (but that is a service, not a product). If no urn has been supplied or purchased, cremated remains are delivered in a very basic cardboard container, with the ashes secured in a heavy plastic bag. You can always purchase an urn later, or even make your own.
The local Five Rivers Crematorium is a public facility owned by the City of Williams Lake. The crematorium is managed and operated under contract by Cariboo-Chilcotin Funeral Services.
"The name of the crematorium came about because the birthplace of the Sikh community is a state in Northwest India known as the Punjab, translating to the Land of Five Rivers. Cremation is an important part of the Sikh sacred death ritual, and the Williams Lake Sikh community built the Five Rivers Crematorium and gave it to the City." (LeRae Haynes, The Green Gazette Sept 7, 2016)
In Williams Lake as in most of our rural BC towns and cities, the Municipal Cemetery is operated by the City.
"Resident” means any person who resided within the boundaries of the Municipality as well as the Cariboo Regional District Electoral Areas D, E, and F, (see the map below) for more than one year prior to the purchase of the grave space. Definitions BYLAW NO 2252
For residents, the minimum cost for an Adult sized grave space at the Williams Lake Cemetery would be $1375 (Grave Space, Opening and Closing and the Grave Liner) For 'non-residents' the minimum cost for a plot at the cemetery would be $1600. (By comparison, if you want a plot at Mountain View Cemetery in Vancouver it will set you back a cool $27,500!)
We are not obliged to buy funeral products from our local funeral homes.
"By law, you are allowed to supply your own coffin or urn (as long as it meets certain specifications). Whether you choose to purchase it from another supplier or make it yourself is up to you, but it has to meet the requirements found in the Public Health Act, it has to be strong enough to hold and move the human remains and can’t pose any health hazards. For full details and specifications, check out this part of the law. You will also want to ask the cemetery if they have size restrictions or charge extra fees." (source Consumer Protection BC)
Below is an example of a mass produced casket available online. This Cherry Casket sells for $1,790.00 CDN + $195.00 shipping. Caskets can be ordered on Amazon and shipped directly to you or to the funeral home you're working with. (I wouldn't be caught dead in one of these but to each their own.)
If you're into a more hands-on approach to your funeral, you can purchase a kit from Fiddlehead Caskets in New Brunswick. Jeremy's casket kit comes complete with everything you need. "Made of locally sourced solid eastern white pine wood. Do-it-yourself, flat-pack to finished casket in under 30 minutes. Includes step-by-step instructions and a hammer for assembly. Regular price CAD $789 plus taxes and shipping."
This is the kind of thing you could buy ahead of time and have tucked in your basement until it's needed.
Alternatively, there is a maker in BC offering unfinished, reclaimed wood caskets for about $400.
You'll find lots of artists online who are offering traditional and non-traditional urns for cremated remains. KORU Cremation in Vancouver offers a really nice range of urns from $65 to $675; stone, wood, metal, salt urns, and scattering tubes. Here's one example from KORU; a sustainably made, biodegradable sand urn for $420.
Burial Shrouds can be purchased right here in BC from Evergreen by Diana for $265 Cdn. "The basic design will fit a body from 5 feet to 6.5 feet and weighing up to 200 lbs. Diana's basic shroud has three cotton ties. Her more elaborate shroud has an absorbent inner liner and reinforced carrying straps."
A simple cremation tray can be ordered online and delivered to your home where family and friends can decorate and personalize it. Then the decorated cover can be placed over the deceased and delivered to the crematorium, which you can also do yourself with a simple Private Transfer Permit from Consumer Protection BC. For about $200 plus shipping you can order this basic cremation tray from Koru Cremation in Vancouver.
I encourage you to visit KORU; their website and their Facebook page. These women are game-changers in the BC Funeral Industry. They are knowledgeable, helpful, kind and open minded. They are my go-to funeral service website in British Columbia offering accurate and excellent BC-specific information, and clear pricing for their products and services.
Locally, "Cariboo-Chilcotin Funeral Service Ltd. is the regional death care service provider serving the entire Cariboo-Chilcotin and Central Coast of British Columbia. It's Coroner Division provides body removal services to the British Columbia Coroner Service under contract throughout the region as well as transportation logistics throughout the province. Cariboo-Chilcotin Funeral Services Ltd. (formerly 100 Mile Funeral Service Ltd.) was established in 1978 and is locally owned and operated. With funeral homes in 100 Mile House and Williams Lake, it serves one of the largest geographic areas of the province. CCFS also operates Five Rivers Crematorium in the City of Williams Lake."
Company Profile on ca.indeed.com
From the CCFS website: "It has been said that an individual adult may only need to arrange a funeral once every ten or more years. We recognize that under these circumstances the expenses of funeral services and merchandise may not be familiar to everyone. We present the following information with the intention of helping each individual acquire a clearer understanding of the costs associated with the services we provide."
No mention of actual costs are provided on their website. Prices can be requested by phone or email, or you can pick up a price list at the funeral home.
In BC, funeral and cremation prices vary widely.
Most of us (about 80% of British Columbians) are choosing cremation.
At Clayton's Funeral Directors in Quesnel, a Direct Cremation will cost $3120.
They post their prices online.
At KORU Cremation in Vancouver, the cost of a Simple Cremation is $1692.
Prices are on their website.
At Cariboo-Chilcotin Funeral Services the cost of a direct cremation is roughly $2400 plus Death Registration Fee ($30), Death Certificates ($27 per each original) and applicable taxes.
If you are arranging a funeral in crisis mode, please take someone with you who is not in your circle of grief. Someone who can advocate on your behalf. You wouldn't buy a wedding dress without a friend by your side ~ don't plan a funeral alone either. And DO some planning ahead of your own death! The people who love you will be ever grateful.
If you want a DIY funeral, legally, in BC we can do much ourselves. Again, KORU Cremation offers an excellent guide to planning a Family Led Funeral. Community Deathcare Canada has published the very useful British Columbia Home Funeral Documentation Pathway. It's a visual follow the bouncing ball guide to what needs to be done if we're doing it ourselves.
We can come at this a whole different way. There are softer, more thoughtful and organic ways to approach end of life and funeral planning. Have you heard of writing a Heart Will? Michelle Pante and Reena Lazar (two more game changers) down at the coast have wonderful resources online as well as workshops, presentations and coaching; WillowEOL
And last but not least, please feel welcome to contact your local Death Doulas; Nicola Finch and Angela Gutzer. We will work with you individually, as a family or in a wider group setting to facilitate getting your wishes written down and communicated to those who need to know. Contact us anytime for information and Death Doula services. Cariboo Community Deathcaring Network
Because it's always too soon until it's too late.
LINKS in this post:
Consumer Protection BC ~ Laws around making your own coffin
Consumer Protection BC - Consumer information Funeral Rights
Fiddlehead Caskets Build it Yourself Pine Casket
KORU Cremation in Vancouver and North Vancouver
Cariboo-Chilcotin Funeral Services Our local (Williams Lake) funeral services
Clayton's Funeral Directors in Quesnel
KORU's resources for Family Led Funerals
British Columbia Home Funeral Documentation Pathway invaluable for DIY funerals in BC
Willow Legacy, Love Letters + Heart Wills.
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